Same-Sex Family Lawyers

Our same-sex relationship lawyers provide guidance through divorce, parenting arrangements, and property settlements, ensuring a fair and efficient resolution while protecting your rights every step of the way.

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Resolving Same-Sex Family & Relationship Law Matters With Integrity & Compassion

Our same-sex family lawyers are 100% committed to diversity and inclusion and have extensive experience with the legal challenges that may arise in same-sex divorce and separations, such as issues of legal parentage.

Testart Family Law’s team has helped many gay, lesbian and LGBTIQA+ couples navigate relationship breakdown with compassion and expertise. We’ll do everything we can to keep your personal matters out of the court and resolve any disputes amicably.

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Do I Need A Same-Sex Family Lawyer?

If you are going through a divorce or separation, it’s always wise to get some advice from a family lawyer. Ending same-sex relationships brings some unique challenges, even though your relationship is essentially treated the same as any divorce or separation under Australian family law. Some of these can arise around parenting matters or a lack of understanding from professionals engaged in assisting with divorce or separation.

If you just need a divorce, it is entirely possible to file for divorce without a same-sex family lawyer, but a lawyer can assist you here, to streamline the process. If you were married overseas, are having issues locating documents or are unable to locate your ex-partner to serve divorce paperwork, a lawyer can assist you in resolving these matters.

Divorce only legally ends your marriage, and while same-sex de facto couples can skip this step, there’s usually more to think about. Getting a divorce does not make arrangements for the division of assets or care of your children. If your de facto relationship breaks down, getting a divorce obviously isn’t necessary, but you’ll still need to consider how to divide any property and also parenting arrangements if there are children involved.

How Do I Get A Same-Sex Divorce?

The same-sex divorce process is much the same as it is for heterosexual couples. You can apply for divorce by completing an online application by yourself (sole application), together with your ex-partner (joint application), or with the assistance of a family lawyer.

  • You do not need to give any reason for the divorce because no-fault divorce exists in Australia.
  • If you file a sole application or have children under 18, you may need to attend court and serve your ex-partner with the divorce application.
  • Your ex-partner cannot oppose a divorce order, and you do not need a reason to divorce as long as there is no reasonable hope of you getting back together.

Legally ending a marriage is generally quite straightforward, but property settlement and making arrangements for your children’s care are usually more complex. Testart’s specialist same-sex family lawyers will work hard to resolve these issues outside of court with the help of our expert mediators. If this approach isn’t successful, we can advise you on the best way forward and prepare you for what’s next.

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Our team is dedicated to providing comprehensive assistance with property settlements following divorce, addressing all related legal matters with expertise and diligence.

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Same Sex Divorce

Compassionate, Expert Legal Support for LGBTIQA+ & Same-Sex Couples

Our team of family law professionals understands the unique challenges same-sex & LGBTIQA+ relationships. We provide empathetic, clear guidance through separation, financial settlements, and legal matters, ensuring your rights and wellbeing are always our priority. Trust us to support you through each step, securing a fair outcome for you and your family.

Work with Testart’s Same-Sex Family Lawyers

At Testart Family Lawyers, we provide legal excellence paired with compassionate support, helping same-sex couples navigate property settlements and family law matters efficiently and fairly. From your first consultation to resolution, we are committed to guiding you every step of the way. Contact us today for assistance.

Step 1: Book a Free Introductory Session

Start with a free introductory session where we get to know you and your situation.

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Step 2: Book a Strategy Session

Work with one of our expert family lawyers to create a tailored strategy specific to your needs.

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Step 3: Engage Us for Expert Guidance

Partner with our team for professional, caring support throughout your property settlement or family law matter.

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Reach out today to book your free consultation and allow Testart Family Lawyers to assist you during this challenging time.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How will working with same-sex family lawyers help me?

As with heterosexual relationships – or any type of relationship, getting clear legal advice will help you to finalise your family law matter while protecting your and your children’s best interests. Same-sex parenting and child support issues can also be a little more tricky to deal with in Australia, and a family lawyer who understands the challenges in these areas can guide you through the process, ensuring the best outcome possible for you.

If there is any dispute over these issues, it’s always best to seek the advice of a specialist LGBTIQA+ lawyer you can trust right away. Testart’s legal experts can help ensure you:

  • Understand the legal process.
  • Know all your options and are able to make informed decisions.
  • Give yourself the best possible chance to resolve issues out of court.
  • Understand what you’re entitled to.
  • Ensure whatever happens is in the best interests of your children.
  • Give yourself the best chance to achieve the result that you want.

Most importantly, you’ll have peace of mind, knowing you have a compassionate legal expert to call on for guidance every step of the way.

How does the Family Law Act 1975 view same-sex relationships?

In Australia, the Family Law Act 1975 – Sect 4AA – De facto relationships defines that “a de facto relationship can exist between 2 persons of different sexes and between 2 persons of the same sex“. This means that same-sex divorce and separation are quite similar to that of anyone who is ending a marriage or de facto relationship.

Being married is a legal status – regardless of your gender, identity or the nature of a sexual relationship. Getting a divorce is the only way to change your legal status after a marriage.

Being in a same-sex de facto relationship may present issues with co-parenting if both parents are not on the birth certificate or legal guardians or adopted parents. Our team can assist with resolving these matters, ensuring that children of same-sex relationships are able to spend time with both of their parents.

What do I need to do to finalise a same-sex marriage or de facto relationship?

Ending a relationship in terms of family law generally consists of three main areas.

  • The first is the actual separation itself, and then a divorce if you are married.
  • The second is working out parenting matters if there are children from your relationship with your former partner. This area can present more challenges for same-sex and LGBTIQA+ couples due to issues related to parentage. Our team is very experienced with efficiently resolving these matters to ensure best interests agreements for children involved, with both parents. Factors like family violence or legal issues arising between a biological and non-biological parent can further complicate parenting matters, which is why it’s helpful to seek legal advice as early as possible from experienced and compassionate same-sex lawyers.
  • The third area to legally finalise a divorce or separation is property settlement, which involves dividing any shared assets from the relationship. This looks different for everyone and can be very straightforward and addressed quite easily in matters where both parties can agree on how to move forward. However, if parties cannot agree, or there are disputes or complex financial structures, it can be more challenging.

Some people finalise all of these steps at the same time; others will finalise property and then get a divorce, maybe even years after separation. Talk to our family lawyers to work out what path of action will best suit your personal situation.

What are the challenges that same-sex couples may face with co-parenting after a divorce or separation?

For same-sex couples who divorce or separate in Australia, parenting matters and birth certificates can present complex legal challenges, including:

  1. Parentage Recognition: Only one parent may be listed on the birth certificate, which can complicate custody and parenting matters. In some cases, the non-biological parent may face difficulty establishing legal parental rights.
  2. Parental Rights: Legal recognition of both parents, especially if the child was conceived via artificial insemination, might require court intervention to ensure both parties are listed as legal parents, regardless of biological connection.
  3. State and Territory Differences: Laws surrounding the recognition of same-sex parents on birth certificates and parenting orders may vary across Australian states, making the process more complicated depending on where the child was born.
  4. Court Orders: In the event of a dispute, same-sex couples may need to seek parenting orders from family courts to ensure equal rights to custody, visitation, and decision-making for their child.
  5. Access to Parental Leave and Benefits: Only the legal parent listed on the birth certificate may be entitled to certain parental rights, such as leave or government support, potentially limiting the non-biological parent’s access.

Experienced family lawyers can help same-sex couples navigate these complexities and work to ensure both parents’ rights are recognised and upheld.

Are you able to get a same-sex divorce?

On December 9 2017, the Marriage Act 1961 was updated, and the right to marry was no longer determined by sex. Since then, same-sex marriages have rightfully been treated the same as heterosexual ones under Australian law.

Divorce also functions much the same for same-sex couples. To be eligible for divorce, you, your ex-partner and your marriage will need to meet certain criteria:

  • Be legally married.
  • Have been separated for at least 12 months.
  • There is no reasonable hope of you reconciling.

If you have been married for less than two years, you may need to get counselling before a divorce is granted. Once you’re sure you’re eligible for divorce, the next step is to start the process.

Why is same-sex legal parentage an obstacle for some separating couples who wish to co-parent?

One of the most common challenges for same-sex parents after divorce is legal parentage. After all, in most same-sex marriages, only one person can be the biological parent to the child.

If that’s the case and you are not recognised as a legal parent, we can help you apply for a parenting order through the Family Court and ensure you retain your rights to care for your children.

What legal rights do same-sex couples have as non-biological parents during divorce or de facto separation?

In Victoria, non-biological parents in same-sex relationships, whether in a gay male, lesbian, or other LGBTIQA+ relationship, can seek parenting orders under the Federal Circuit Court for child custody. If the relationship is deemed to be a de facto relationship or a genuine domestic basis, the non-biological parent may be considered a legal parent. Parenting plans or consent orders may be created.

What are the benefits of hiring a same-sex lawyer to help with divorce or separation?

Divorce is difficult regardless of your sexuality or gender. That’s why we aim to make the process easier and help you shoulder some of the burden by providing empathetic, human support and ongoing legal advice.

We’ll make sure you know exactly where you stand and guide you through the entire process to reduce uncertainty during a difficult time. Our experienced team will also focus on achieving an amicable resolution to save you the cost, stress and time involved in attending court. In the rare event that this isn’t possible, we’ll make sure you’re fully prepared to attend court with everything you need to achieve a result.

Testart Family Lawyers will provide valuable legal advice around the complex issue of legal parentage during same sex divorce, however your child was conceived. Our experienced team will also advise on matters of property settlement to ensure that you receive what you’re entitled to under the law. Ultimately, we’ll give you the best possible chance to achieve an outcome that’s in your best interest and the interests of your family.

What is your process for same-sex divorce and separations?

Same-sex married couples have the same rights under the law as heterosexual couples and can face similar challenges during a divorce. Testart Family Lawyers provide expert advice to help all LGBTIQA+ couples move on and resolve their disputes.

Our diverse team of lawyers have years of experience helping same-sex couples and has extensive experience resolving issues of legal parentage that sometimes occur during same-sex divorce. Our process is designed to reduce stress and cost so that you can focus on taking care of yourself:

  • Our first meeting is completely free, with no obligations. We’ll get to know you, understand the circumstances of your divorce and what you’d like to achieve.
  • Next, we present a statement of your legal position so you know exactly where you stand. We’ll suggest the best course of action to resolve your disputes.
  • If you decide to engage our legal services, we’ll advocate on your behalf and provide honest, expert legal advice.

From the first meeting to resolution of your issue, we’ll take care of you.

Are same-sex couples eligible for the same domestic violence legal protections as heterosexual couples in Victoria?

Yes, gay male couples, lesbian couples, trans, bi and all LGBTIQA+ individuals are entitled to the same domestic and family violence protections as heterosexual couples in Victoria. They can apply for intervention orders if experiencing violence or abuse, with the court determining the relevant issues based on the case, ensuring equal treatment.

What are the steps for a same-sex couple to create a legally binding partnership or prenup?

Same-sex couples, whether gay male, lesbian, or anyone from an LGBTIQA+ relationship can create a binding financial agreement (BFA) or prenuptial agreement to outline asset division in case of separation or divorce. This agreement must be in writing, signed, and legally advised to ensure it’s legally binding and valid under Australian law.

Do same-sex divorce and child custody cases differ from those involving heterosexual couples?

In parenting disputes, gay male couples, lesbian couples, and other families face similar considerations as heterosexual couples. However, donor agreements and the role of non-biological parents may introduce relevant issues. Child support agency involvement may also differ if a sperm donor is involved, as they may not have child custody rights or obligations.

What should same-sex couples know about sperm donor agreements during divorce or separation?

In same-sex relationships, whether gay male, lesbian, or other LGBTIQA+ relationships, a sperm donor agreement can clarify parental rights. If the donor is not considered a legal parent, they may not have child custody rights. Court proceedings will determine the roles of each party in the child’s life, ensuring the de facto relationship or family relationship is considered in custody decisions.

Talk to our compassionate & experienced same-sex & LGBTIQA+ family lawyers.

Testart’s same sex & LGBTIQA+ family & divorce lawyers are experienced and compassionate. We know how to minimise the stress of navigating the breakdown of relationships – and how to give you the best possible chance of achieving a positive result. From the first engagement to resolution – we’ll take care of you.