If your ex has a new de facto relationship, it does not automatically change the way assets are divided in a property settlement. The courts will still focus primarily on the contributions made during your relationship during asset division, aiming for a fair and equitable distribution of property owned with your former partner.
However, their new partner’s financial circumstances and how they affect your ex-partner’s current and future needs may have some influence on the outcome. Each case is assessed individually under the Family Law Act, so it is essential to seek legal advice to understand how your situation may be impacted.
The general impact & legal principles of when an ex-partner enters a new relationship
When an ex-partner enters a new de facto relationship before the final property settlement, it can raise questions about how the new partner’s finances may affect property settlement matters.
Key principles include:
- The new partner’s assets are not added to the property pool, but their financial contributions (or dependency) may be relevant to the settlement process.
- The court will consider the parties’ contributions, both financial and non-financial, during the original relationship when deciding on an equitable property settlement.
- The new partner’s financial situation may reduce or increase the ex-partner’s future needs, which can affect property settlement proceedings.
- The court has broad discretion and considers each case individually, guided by the Family Law Act.
Timing of the new relationship
The timing of a new relationship can significantly influence how it is considered in property and financial settlements. Courts and mediators will often look at when the new de facto relationship began in relation to separation and the finalisation of the property settlement.
Long-term new relationship before settlement:
If the ex-partner enters a new relationship soon after separation and it continues for several years before the settlement, the new partner’s contributions—financial or indirect—may be taken into account. For example, if five years elapse between separation and settlement, and the ex-partner has been in a de facto relationship for four of those years, the new partner may have contributed to the household, supported children, paid bills, or assisted with a family business. These contributions strengthen the ex-partner’s financial position and can influence the division of assets or spousal maintenance claims.
Short-term new relationship near settlement:
Conversely, if the ex-partner’s new relationship begins around the time of settlement and lasts only a few months, its impact is usually minimal. For example, a six-month relationship that starts just as the parties are preparing their property settlement—with the former partners living apart and the new partner making no substantial financial contribution—would typically be considered irrelevant to financial division or child support calculations.
The key principle is that the court or mediator will assess whether the new relationship has genuinely affected the ex-partner’s financial circumstances, financial dependency, or parenting responsibilities. Long-standing relationships with meaningful contributions are more likely to influence outcomes, while brief or nominal relationships usually are not considered.

How a new relationship might influence a settlement
When it comes to property settlements after separation, a new relationship does not automatically change the outcome. However, it may be a factor the court or mediator considers, depending on the circumstances.
A new partner’s financial contributions, support or shared resources may reduce an ex-partner’s future needs, increase their overall financial capacity or alter their financial responsibility. Each situation is different, and whether the new relationship is relevant will depend on timing, the level of financial or practical support, and its impact on the parties’ ongoing responsibilities.
Reduced future needs
If a new partner provides financial support, such as paying all household expenses or covering mortgage repayments, the court may decide your ex-partner’s future needs are lower. This can result in a smaller share of the property pool being awarded to them.
If your ex’s new partner pays all housing costs, it may mean your former partner no longer needs significant property interests to secure accommodation. The court may consider this when dividing assets.
Increased financial capacity
A new partner’s income or assets can increase your ex’s borrowing power and overall financial resources. This may reduce their claim to spousal maintenance or a larger share of the property pool.
Indirect contributions
A new de facto partner might also contribute indirectly, for example, by helping with a family business, paying down debts, or providing other financial resources. These contributions strengthen your ex-partner’s financial circumstances and may be considered in the settlement process.
Trust distributions or redirected income
If a new de facto partner receives income that once went to the ex, such as trust distributions from a family business or wages from working in the business, this may still be viewed as a financial resource for the household. Even though the payments are technically made to the new partner, they benefit the ex’s circumstances and household and may be considered in the settlement process.
If your ex-wife’s new de facto partner receives distributions from her family business, even though it is technically her partner’s income, it benefits the household and may be considered in assessing the ex-partner’s financial resources.
Financial dependency
If you or your former partner has been financially dependent on one another, courts or mediators may examine how a new partner affects that dynamic. A new partner may lessen the former partner’s dependency, potentially influencing ongoing financial support or spousal maintenance claims.
For instance, if your former partner’s new de facto partner pays the rent in full or owns their home outright, it may significantly lower the ex’s future financial needs. It’s also possible that they pay a large amount of living expenses in exchange, which is why there is no one-size-fits-all approach.
Child support and care
If the ex’s new partner contributes to the household where children live, it may influence child support assessments or living arrangements. For example, if a new partner pays school fees or provides accommodation, this may affect how child support obligations are calculated.
If your children’s dad’s new partner has a child with special needs, and your shared children have moved out of the home, it may place heavy financial obligations on the new household. The court may find that, despite the partner’s income, they cannot provide the same level of support, limiting its effect on the settlement.
Gifts, inheritances and other financial resources
Gifts or inheritances received by your ex or their new partner could also be considered as part of the financial resources available. While not always included in a settlement, these resources may impact the division of assets if they affect the ex-partner’s overall financial situation.

Duty of disclosure and evidence
Full financial disclosure is a central part of the property settlement process. Both parties must provide financial documents about their income, assets, and liabilities, including any household expenses shared with a new partner.
Although the new partner’s assets do not form part of the property pool, financial documents showing how they contribute to household expenses may still be relevant.
Evidence might include:
- Bank statements showing shared expenses
- Rental or mortgage agreements showing who pays housing costs
- Financial documents relating to family businesses or trusts
- Agreements about household contributions
Other key considerations
Other factors may also influence family law proceedings if your former partner has a new partner.
Binding financial agreements
A binding financial agreement made during the relationship or after separation may still govern property settlement matters, regardless of whether one party has a new de facto partner. Financial support may be included in this type of agreement that ends if one party re-partners.
Spousal maintenance
Future needs are directly relevant to spousal maintenance claims. If your ex’s new partner provides substantial financial support, the court may find your ex requires less support from you. On the other hand, if the new partner has financial obligations of their own (such as caring for a child with special needs), the impact of their support may be limited.
Centrelink benefits
A new partner’s income can reduce eligibility for government assistance. This change in financial resources may be factored into property settlement proceedings.
Complex financial arrangements
Sometimes, a new partner’s financial support comes through trusts or family businesses. For example, a new partner may take distributions from your ex’s family trust, boosting household income without direct taxation. This could alter the perception of your ex-partner’s financial circumstances.
Records and documentation
It is essential to maintain records of contributions from the original relationship and current up-to-date financial circumstances. This helps ensure a fair property settlement and protects against disputes.

Taking the next steps
If you are asking yourself, ‘So, my ex has a new de facto. How does this affect my property settlement?’ The answer will depend heavily on your and your former partner’s specific financial situation and contributions.
The best way to protect your interests is to:
- Seek legal advice from an experienced family lawyer
- Gather financial documents and ensure full financial disclosure
- Consider both your and your former partner’s non-financial contributions
- Understand your rights under the Family Law Act
- Consider whether a binding financial agreement may still apply
- Act within the time limits for property settlement proceedings
Multiple factors are considered when reaching a property settlement, and it’s important to have the best advice to protect your financial future.
Need help understanding your property settlement entitlements?
An ex-partner’s new de facto relationship can affect property settlement matters in subtle but important ways. While the new partner’s assets are not added to the property pool, their income, financial contributions, and household role may alter how the family court views your ex’s future needs. Every case is different, and understanding property settlement requires a clear picture of contributions, financial circumstances, and legal obligations.
It is crucial to seek advice from an experienced family lawyer who understands property settlement and the impact of changing circumstances, to ensure a fair and equitable division of assets. Our skilled and compassionate family law team can guide you through the process and provide clear advice tailored to your situation.

